在公事上,必须问出尖锐的问题时,我建议拿“抽象的第三方”来当替死鬼。“老板,全省的经销商他们叫我来问您,如果您海报印这么大,他们要贴在哪里?”还有一种说法,可以尽量把对方听来刺耳的,有审判味道的字眼,改成用一些“具体的陈述”,例如:“蔡教授,同事都在传你的论文是抄袭的。”可以改成:“蔡教授,我们收到这份英国的学术期刊,上面这篇论文,跟你上个月发表的那篇,内容上重叠的部分,大概有五千字。”。虽然用字比较多,但也显得比较具体,不像是直接指责对方,而是要求对方就事论事。-蔡康永《蔡康永的说话之道》

On official business, must ask the tough questions, I suggest to take "abstract of third party" as a horse. "Boss, the province's dealer they called me to ask you, if you posters printed so big, they want to stick in where?" There is a saying, you can try to take each other sounds harsh, tastes trial words, to use some "concrete", for example: "chua, colleagues are in your paper is plagiarism." Can be changed to: "chua, we received the British academic journals, this paper, the papers published in the last month with you, overlapping part of the content, there are about five thousand words." . Although more words, but also seem to be more specific, like not directly accused each other, but for the other practical. - definetely definetely way of speaking

天可怜见,有些人本来防卫心就很强,或者天生个性冷淡,你再怎么努力找话题跟他讲,他就是淡淡的回答你“是啊”“真的啊”,这些都是会让你卡住的回答。这样的人,如果你并没有和他恋爱的打算,那我建议你明快有礼地说清楚该说的话,类似“老师说明 九点在车站集合哦”或者“那么很抱歉这次就不麻烦你了”,说完就可以闪了。但如果是你在意的人,谈话却卡住的话,其实不必用力挽救,另开一个话题即可:小戈:”我昨天租了一部片子,是讲未来世界,人的记忆可以被造假的故事“、古古:”听起来好难懂哦“小戈(马上另起炉灶):”我后来在路上,竟然看到林志玲在买炸鸡排也“。古古(眼睛一亮):”林志玲本人漂不漂亮啊?“。-蔡康永《蔡康永的说话之道》

Day living, some people will be very strong defensive, or natural personality aloof, you again how efforts to seek a topic to speak with him, he is thin to answer "yes" you "really", these are the answer will let you get stuck. Such a person, if you did not intend to fall in love with him, then I suggest you is a friendly and lively to say the words, like "the teacher Set at the station at nine o 'clock oh "or" I'm sorry this will not trouble you ", say that finish can flash. But if you care about people, conversation is stuck, actually don't have to be hard to save, the other can open a topic: XiaoGe: "yesterday I rented a movie, is about the future, memories can be fraud story", the ancient ancient: "sounds good to understand oh" XiaoGe (start) right away: "I later on the road, I saw Lin" in buy Fried chicken row. Gu gu, eyes a bright: "Lin I drift not beautiful?" . - definetely definetely way of speaking

“这有什么用?”几乎是我们这个岛上,最受欢迎的一个问题。每个人都好像上好发条的娃娃,你只要拍他的后脑一下,他就理直气壮地问:“这有什么用?” 从小,我就眼睁睁地看着爸妈做很多“一点用也没有”的事情。爸买回家里一件又一件动不动就摔破的瓷器水晶;妈叫裁缝来家里量制一件又一件繁复的旗袍;一桌又一桌吃完就没有的大菜;一圈又一圈堆倒又砌好的麻将,从来没有半个人会问:“这有什么用?” 我不确定,这是不是值得庆幸的事。一直到,反复确定了“人生最重要的东西,其实都没有什么用”时,才觉得自己运气真好。人生,并不是拿来用的。-蔡康永《痛快日记》

"What's the use?" Is almost our island, one of the most popular problem. Everyone seems to wind up baby, you just take his head and he rightfully asked: "what's the use?" Since the childhood, I watched my parents do a lot of "no use". Father to buy a home in one and is easily broken porcelain crystal; Mother told the tailor to home made a cheongsam and a heavy and complicated; A table for a table and eat, no meal; A circle and round pile is build by laying bricks or stones good mahjong, no half a man would ask: "what's the use?" I'm not sure, if this is a cause for celebration. Repeated until, identified "the most important thing in life, in fact all no use", just felt lucky. Life, do not use them. - definetely time diaries

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